Also, INFJs tend to throw themselves full force into relationships right off the bat and tend to be VERY possessive with deep meaningful LTR on the mind; if you think your INTJ was devastated you've never met an INFJ after a break-up-at times inconsolable. They are very passionate and understanding, but the long distance relationship may actually get to him before it gets to you again. He needs to be able to trust you 110% and if you haven't convinced him his mind may begin to wonder. On the flip side though, you never have to worry about him, INFJs are loyal to an extreme. If you could manage to see each other several times a month-I don't know maybe five-ten times- this could actually work to your benefit. Enough time together to keep the relationship strong, and time for you do be independent. Just keep the dialogue open at all times!

Good luck! an INFJ is a rarity.

ENFP living with an INFJ brother.

Very funny Peta. Made me laugh because it is sort of true.

However, I think that from an ENFP'S perspective - it may not be the amount of time that we devote to the relationship, but the amount of love and feeling.

We do find it hard to relate to people, so, many times, we like to have many different friends and relationships to balance and intrigue our many different sides, adventures and tastes.

So, that's who we are, and many people probably do have to get used to it - but we make FANTASTIC friends, and we make incredible relationships as well.

We love people and have so many colors in our life that we have to paint the whole pallet.

Hope that helps.