ever consider putting together a comedy routine?
;)

i figured it was a trait of the ENFP, but i've never verified it, having not had much or any contact with other ENFPs. i'm kind of excite to have stumbled upon this group.

what i have to wonder... are any number of things as a result of this, though.

which is the cause and which the effect, and what is the connection between someone physically finding ou familiar without exchanging a word and seeing themselves in you after talking, if there is one?

...rambling off point...

do i genuinely physically resemble all of these people? i doubt it strongly, considering the rather diverse and unconventional looks I've cultivated.

are there some personality types that judge appearances based more strongly on body language and posture than visual input? that might be more plausible. though i've never asked any of these people who've approached me what their personality profiles were.

when people tell me we're alike, i disagree, because while i know i can reltae to them on certain levels and i pursue conversations looking for that common ground, i know that the characteristics that are revealed are dominantly theirs, and the way some of my ways of being echo theirs.

i do it without thinking about it, but reflecting back on most of my interactions, i try to dissect it. it seems weird that i'm so good at listening to a stranger's problems and being the revelatory force that steers them in an enlightened new direction, but when it comes to my wants and needs and goals, i feel totally lost.

sometimes i feel like i'm more of a fun house mirror than a genuine person. i wonder sometimes if that's who i really am, the thing that reflects people back at themselves in a different light. or if there's a single real me in here somewhere instead of several.
i naturally focus on filling in other people's gaps; i enjoy helping them fulfill themselves and solve their problems, but when it comes to mine, i'm at a loss.

i get an ego boost out of their reaction to my charisma, so i'm not pouty or anything, and i've done much better lately about surrounding myself with people whose interpretation of me reflects things i want to be... and think i am. i guess i'm just never happy living in the present. i always have to find something to worry about. =)

ok, enough rambling.

do you hate the idea of sales, though?

i have a mad desire to increase the good in the world, and though i'm naturally good at convincing people of things, i have to really believe in the product or i feel dirty selling it.